Ten years later: Father struggles to make sense of daughter’s brutal slaying
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For more than a decade, Dave Neese has tried to make sense of his 16-year-old daughterĢƵ brutal murder.
During a Tuesday presentation at Penn State Fayette, The Eberly Campus, Neese said he simply can’t.
“ThereĢƵ no part about this story thatĢƵ sane,” he told those who gathered to hear him speak.
On July 6, 2012, Sklylar Neese left her Star City, W.Va. home with two girls she believed were her friends. They told her they wanted to take her to a party, and instead drove her to Wayne Township in Greene County and stabbed her death.
“I’ve had so many questions I’ve wanted to ask these girls for so long, and you know, it doesn’t matter what the question is. You’re not going to get an answer that makes sense because this is insanity,” Neese said.
Still, Neese and his wife Mary continue to give presentations, telling their daughterĢƵ story – and the impact her death has had on them – everywhere from prisons to schools.
“This has ruined my life,” Dave said. “My wife can’t be here today because sheĢƵ ill — sheĢƵ sick, all directly related to this.”
Two years ago, he said, his brother committed suicide over the devastation of his nieceĢƵ murder.
Skylar was stabbed more than 50 times by Rachel Shoaf and Shelia Eddy, both classmates of hers from Morgantown. Prosecutors in West Virginia said Shoaf and Eddy killed Skylar because they believed she was in the way of their friendship.
Dave Neese said the girls planned the killing over a yearĢƵ time, and tried to dig a grave to hide SkylarĢƵ body. When they found the ground was too hard to do that, they covered her up with twigs and branches, he said.
After Skylar was killed, Shoaf and Eddy would come to the Neese familyĢƵ home, offering support. One of the girls even asked to go to SkylarĢƵ room, telling her parents she wanted to do so to be closer to her.
Authorities discovered SkylarĢƵ body six months after she was killed in rural Greene County, after Shoaf confessed the killing to a nurse at a mental health facility.
Both Shoaf and Eddy were convicted in the case, with Shoaf sentenced to 30 years in prison and Eddy sentenced to 15 years to life.
Dave Neese said he finds it impossible to understand how two people who have ruined so many lives continue to have perks, even behind bars. He said Shoaf and Eddy get bags of mail, one was briefly married, and both have received money and gifts.
Next month, Shoaf will be eligible for parole. Dave said he will be at the hearing, ready to say what he needs to, to ensure she stays in prison. He asked those who listened to him on Tuesday to show support for Skylar, and to sign the Change.org petition to keep Shoaf behind bars.
Launched in March, the petition has more than 31,000 digital signatures.
While the support is meaningful, it brings little consolation to a man who has an unbearable hole in his heart over the loss of his bubbly and kind daughter.
“Ten years later, I still find myself as mad. I know how to control it a little better, but I still find myself as mad and full of hate as I did before,” he said. “I’m going to try to channel that hate into good. I’m trying to help people. I’m trying to make this never ever happen again but as much as I don’t want it to, it already has happened somewhere and itĢƵ horrible.”



